I asked Kate questions regarding relationships and Mr. Saunders and wrote as she gave answers. Here are a few of the things that got written down. I don't know if Kate thought it was therapeutic, but I quite enjoyed myself! I do it with myself all the time! (That doesn't sound crazy at all, does it...)
Healthy Relationships-
supportive
open
honesty is huge; honest is not just telling the truth, it's telling everything; not hiding anything
with that I think you can build anything including trust
trust- without trust there is no relationship
cutesy; thoughtfulness, gestures mean a lot. :)
"But I don't know how to make those myself."
Speaking of writing to Branson:
I promise if you write him, you will not regret it at all. It will make everything good. He makes me happy and feel okay with life.
Speaking of Adam:
Have his thoughts changed? Am I holding onto something that isn't there for him? What can I do for him. Does he have that same attachment? Hello mister, What's going on in your head? Maybe we just need to start over this fall?
I feel like he knows nothing about me. When we were up at college we talked all the time.
"Why I like Adam"-
feel protected
the singing is a big bonus
strong testimony
he gives you compliments
very attracted to him
he makes you laugh
always have fun with him
there isn't anything you've found that you haven't liked
he knows how to control his frustrations
doesn't get outwardly angry
touchy-feely; not overbearing
I know I was hesitant because I didn't know where he stood with the gospel.
“This is mostly my fault.”
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There's more where this betsy came from, but there's some about Adam and about relationships. :)
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